Engaging in meaningful conversations with others strengthens social bonds and boosts well-being far more than small talk does.Yet many people fear or even actively avoid intimate（親密的）conversations，especially with those they don't know well.Why are we so unwilling to engage in an activity that could benefit us so acutely？According to new research，it may be due to miscalculated expectations，and changing them could foster deeper connections.
In a series of studies published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology，participants either engaged in"shallow"conversations （speaking，for example，about their sleep schedule or how often they get haircuts） or"deep" discussions（covering embarrassing moments or what they're grateful for）.Before chatting，they predicted how awkward and uncomfortable the conversation would be，how close they would feel to their conversation partner afterward，and how much they would enjoy the interaction.Participants who consistently overestimated the awkwardness of the conversations also greatly underestimated how much they'd enjoy the more intimate conversations，as well as how close they'd feel to their partner.
The noticeable difference between participants' expectations and their actual experience seemed rooted in the assumption that conversation partners wouldn't care about the details of their lives."We underestimate，essentially，how social others are，" explains study author Nicholas Epley，a psychologist at the University of Chicago.
Such an assumption could be a barrier to forming deeper connections with others，Epley believes.Yet participants appeared able to course-correct.When they were told ahead of time that it's common to underestimate how much strangers care about each other，they voluntarily steered the talks into deeper directions，potentially reaping the benefits of doing so.
A single reminder likely isn't enough to permanently change miscalculated assumptions，Epley warns.But making the effort to engage in just a few positive interactions could help someone mentally reset."After having a meaningful conversation，people usually want to have another one，"he says. "But you can learn only from experiences that you have，"he adds."If you think it will be unpleasant to talk to someone and therefore never try，you'll never find out that you were wrong."
（1）Why are people unwilling to get involved in intimate conversations？ Because people have miscalculated expectations.Because people have miscalculated expectations.
（2）What could stop people forming deeper connections with others？ It is the assumptions that conversation partners wouldn't care about the details of their lives.It is the assumptions that conversation partners wouldn't care about the details of their lives.
（3）Please decide which part is false in the following statement，then underline it and explain why. A single reminder can permanently change our assumptions，but we still need to engage in positive interactions to help us mentally reset.According to the passage，a single reminder isn't enough to permanently change miscalculated assumptions，but we still need to engage in positive interactions to help us mentally reset.A single reminder can permanently change our assumptions，but we still need to engage in positive interactions to help us mentally reset.According to the passage，a single reminder isn't enough to permanently change miscalculated assumptions，but we still need to engage in positive interactions to help us mentally reset.
A single reminder can permanently change our assumptions，but we still need to engage in positive interactions to help us mentally reset.
（4）Do you prefer to have a"shallow" conversation or a"deep"discussion with strangers？And give your reasons.（In about 40 words） I prefer to have a shallow conversation because there is social etiquette that we need to observe in order not to make others feel offended.Besides，people differ in personalities so it is considerate to respect their boundaries and avoid information they might view as privacy.I prefer to have a shallow conversation because there is social etiquette that we need to observe in order not to make others feel offended.Besides，people differ in personalities so it is considerate to respect their boundaries and avoid information they might view as privacy.
【答案】Because people have miscalculated expectations.；It is the assumptions that conversation partners wouldn't care about the details of their lives.；A single reminder can permanently change our assumptions，but we still need to engage in positive interactions to help us mentally reset.According to the passage，a single reminder isn't enough to permanently change miscalculated assumptions，but we still need to engage in positive interactions to help us mentally reset.；I prefer to have a shallow conversation because there is social etiquette that we need to observe in order not to make others feel offended.Besides，people differ in personalities so it is considerate to respect their boundaries and avoid information they might view as privacy.
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