（1）Sandy thinks it's important to have her own duty and make her

.
（2）Sandy's mum doesn't

her advice

，so Sandy doesn't think her mum understands her.
（3）James thinks Sandy's mum is probably only trying to

Sandy's life

.
（4）Sandy is worried that he won't learn about life if her mum makes

for her.
（5）James tells Sandy "You want to make more chances

and you'll soon miss your mum's help".